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Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Breakfast
This might be a little strange, but growing up, I always looked forward to breakfast. It's the one meal my family would sit down for before going to work or school. Usually we'd come home too late for dinner together.
I'm not much of a picky eater, so I didn't mind having the same thing every morning (cereal, oatmeal, tofu), but sometimes when my mom was feeling generous, she would make me a cup of traditional Filipino (Spanish?) hot chocolate.
This stuff is not for the faint of heart. It's pure chocolate tablets mixed in boiling water. The chocolate isn't even sweet. Tough stuff that really got me awake in the morning (no joe for me) and kept my sweet tooth in line all day.
Coming to college really made me miss my cereal and hot chocolate, so I make it a point to always have some chocolate tablets and evaporated milk in my pantry.
Carol Says ,,,
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Howtogetmarried.com
Let me start with a small story.
Jeet grew up with four friends, they woke up together, ate together, studied together and to end it all played cricket together and they are:
1) Vibhav Natu : Married ( Love Marriage) : Initially was opposed by the family but they relented and accepted it.
2) Kapil Panchal (Arranged Marriage) : I couldn't believe that any girl would say yes to this bugger(British slang), but he is getting married this November ( It will be live on skype for me to witness)
3) Kedar Nivate (Arranged Marriage): We decided to get married on the same stage, but social pressure is driving him nuts and he can't wait for me. ( I am writing this blog mainly because of this guy)
4) Jeet : ......................
Story End :) Happy Ending, except for the fact that the ending is blank with out me jumping into the so called matrimonial phase.
Well i remember my first days in US, my friends concern about my love life (guys do talk about love life) decided to hook me up with some females. Michelle & Jerry being my love gurus started doing my so called counselling. Disappointed by my speed they gave up, but i had to tell them that my wishes of marrying a girl of my choice would never be approved at all.
At this stage they were heartbroken like literally heartbroken. The super woman Michelle then asked me "Jeet, will you ever get married" and then i took my laptop out and smiled.
This is what i told them, and you can try doing it in your laptop as well, follow the steps listed so that this is interactive. This is the way literally thousands of Indians are getting married now a days and this thing really works. There are a whole lot of services and money being made by these sites by bringing together the working class Indians who don't have time for dating or who can not date due to family pressures.
Stage 1
The example today we are going to discuss is about your friend Jeet and this is how you are going to help him find a bride. Feel free to browse through other options if you like
1) Go to http://www.tamilmatrimony.com/
Notice the words TAMIL in the website, it is a language spoken in southern India, since there are 30 other languages there are 30 other sites. We are not going to bother about it. Being specific helps to narrow down the search results.
2) The second tab, is the search tab (home tab is on the left and register tab is on the right of it). Move your mouse over to search and select regular search.
3) Fill in the following information in the search page
Select gender : Female
Age : 23 to 27 ( acceptable age difference)
Height: 5ft to 5ft 9
Martial Status: Unmarried
Religion : Hindu
Mother Tongue : By default it would be "Tamil" other wise chose the Tamil
Caste: Add
Country : For now lets keep it USA and then we can change to India later.
Education : Bachelors Engineering / Computers & Masters Engineering /Computers
Show Profile : With photos
Now click on Search, the result will show one female i guess ( that is what it showed me, and remember we clicked the country as united states if we would have changed the country to india there would have been more search results). Click on her and go through her profile. Everything about her is listed here, what she likes and what she dislikes and also what kind of person they are expecting for her. (Notice that the profile is being created by her parents and not her, screws me up even more because i don't know if my parents have created my profile)
All parents in India would spend some time of their busy life online on sites like this ( and not facebook).
Stage 2 :
Once they think, that the girl satisfies their requirements, they would contact her parents and get her Horoscope. ( Horoscope are really really really important). The horoscope of the girl and the boy is read at the same time by a savant and he/she determines if they stars and the planets will protect the holy matrimonial.
Stage 3:
The parents will break the news that they have found a girl and vice versa with her family. They will exchange pictures and ask for their advice ( since now a days everyone is educated). During the initial days in India the girl and boy never use to see each other before marriage, right at the moment when they are getting married they will see each other on the podium. Then it progressed to speed dating when the boy will go the girl house to meet her and get like 10 mins to decide if they want to get married or not. But thanks to Gtalk, Skype & Facebook the girl and the boy chat before they decide to meet up.
Step 4:
A background check is done on the family on both sides, its like the FBI thingy in depth information is collected on the side lines of the chat. This is a very important stage as well
Step 5:
The boy's family will ask for dowry ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dowry). The boy literally becomes a millionaire right after marriage. Assuming that i am in US my dowry rates would be high as well. ( This is like bullsh%$ which i don't believe in but i say "I don't want it", they will think that "May be the boy is impotent, which is why out of desperation his family wants to marry him off"
Step 6:
Get married, have kids in the first year(again social pressure) and have a happy life ahead.
The purpose of this blog was to show the complications involved in a marriage and yet the system which kind of works. Kapil's marriage is arranged and so is Kedar, he met his girl through a similar website.
I fear that if i go back to India they will start fixing me up with someone. ( One of the reasons to do my graduation was to escape home and avoid falling in the trap of marriage). The typical age for a guy to get married is 25 and for a girl is 23.
Well now that you know how to do it, find me someone. :) :) :) (blondes accepted)
P.S: While majority marriages are still arranged in India many do get married outside their caste, against their family wishes and are being accepted in the society. ( ray of hope for me :) )
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Cuppa Joe
or make things like cheese toast. I really hated cheese toast, which perplexed her, because I love cheese and bread, but the slice of white bread with a slice of American cheese broiled for minute until the "cheese" melted was, quite frankly, icky.
When we moved to Germany I was introduced to a different tradition of breakfast. At home we still had a lot of the same things, although we had the benefit of having a bakery around the corner from us, which had the best breads.
We traveled a lot and I came to like the breakfasts that we were served in the hotels, except the eggs.
followed by some yogurt, fruit and nuts, but not until I've been up for a few hours, thank you!
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
My breakfast story
America's Breakfast Buffet
Since no one has touched on the American breakfast yet, I thought I'd give a brief overview. That way, if anyone wants to go into further detail about a specific breakfast option (hint hint, nudge nudge), that wonderful ISA is free to do so.
So, I come from Pennsylvania, the home of scrapple, which Wikipedia describes as "traditionally a mush of pork scraps and trimmings combined with cornmeal and flour, often buckwheat flour, and spices. The mush is formed into a semi-solid congealed loaf, and slices of the scrapple are then panfried before serving."
But that's not what I want to talk about today.
In America, there are a lot of “classic” breakfast foods. If you go to any diner, you can probably find these “hearty” breakfast options:
French Toast
Belgian Waffles
Pancakes (or flapjacks, as some places call them)
Eggs (omelets, scrambled, over-easy, boiled, etc), usually with some sort of bacon or sausage, and starch/carbohydrate on the side.
Muffins / donuts / breakfast pastries
With most of these options, Maple syrup is a must. That sweet, sugary glaze can be used to top the fluffy dough of the pancakes or add sweetness to the salty crunch of bacon.
Pancakes or Waffles also often come with a dollop of whipped cream and maybe some sliced fruit.
To be honest, my family usually only made big breakfasts on special occasions. Sundays we'd often buy donuts or make cinnabons.
Christmas would be sausage-gravy and biscuits, French-toast casserole, lemon poppy seed bread, mini blueberry muffins, and fruit. Easter was often omelets my dad made to order. When we were younger, we’d often do "breakfast for dinner," and kids don’t complain about chocolate chip pancakes, no matter what time they’re eaten.Otherwise, on a normal morning, a “sit-down” breakfast was cereal, granola, oatmeal or a cup of Greek yogurt.The mornings of my eight-hour soccer practices, it was a bagel with peanut butter. My senior year of high school, I started my day with a chunk of Challah bread that I would dip into some Aztec Hot Chocolate (Spicy hot chocolate).
When I don’t have time to sit and eat, I usually take a breakfast bar or an instant smoothie to go. Even in college, freshman year breakfasts were often Starbucks Vivanno’s or Freshens Acai smoothies that I could take to class.
What I’m trying to say is, American breakfasts are quite varied, as I am sure breakfasts in most other countries are. We have the traditional breakfasts, and the fast food breakfasts (I recall the days of Sausage, egg, and cheese McMuffins), the on-the-go breakfasts, and the leftover dinner breakfasts (cold pizza, anyone?).
And, despite all the options and variations, there are certain foods that, no matter what time you eat them or how you prepare them, will always be considered “Breakfast.”
-Kelly M.Monday, July 18, 2011
Jeet's Break the Fast : Kuli Paniyaram
Or it is the food that is made inside a container which has Holes in them. J
Friday, July 15, 2011
Healthy Breakfast with Boiled Fish Rice :)
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Kicking off July ...
How are we all doing today?
Have we all recovered from the shock of Tasha’s departure?
No? Me neither. … But, as they say: you don’t get over it, but you get through it.
And for me, the World Cup has helped.
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I love Soccer. Or football, as most people call it.
I love the fitness and the skill.
Hope Solo (The US Women's Goalie) Training
I love the uniforms and the fans.
I love the players and their stories.
I love the drama and action of it all.
"Papers label French team a bunch of mutinous fools"
It is, simply, my favorite sport.
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But the world cup brings it to a whole new level. Club competitors become national teammates. Club teammates become international competitors.
Older players face the inevitability of younger stars taking their place. Rising stars get a humbling reality check from the more experienced players.
"Grings finally emerges from golden Prinz's Shadow"
There are always underdogs and surprises … both on the field and off.
Paul the Octopus correctly predicted the future outcomes.
During their first game, the Japanese team held up a big banner thanking the world for all of the support Japan received after the earthquake and tsunami. One of their players, Aya Miyama, has spent the past few years playing on various club teams in the US, but she was in Japan during the tsunami and went missing. All of her teammates, both past and present, called her and sent letters to her family until she was found. These are the same players who pull her shirt and tackle her legs and would gladly push her out of the way for a shot on goal.
What I’m trying to say, is that soccer/football is a game that captures humanity and puts it on a field. And, no matter where you’re from or what language you speak, you can learn something from playing and watching because this sport teaches in the language of the game. You learn to put aside differences and work together with your worst enemy or against your best friend. You learn to push yourself to your limit and beyond. You learn to see opportunities, no matter how small, and to face off against great odds and daunting numbers in order to get that one shot at success. And when you miss your shot, you learn to keep your composure, pick yourself up, and try again. Patience, communication, keeping your head up, and following through … these are all essential elements of a successful player … and person.
I could keep going, but I don’t want to bore you. I just want you to keep in mind how much of this ISA experience can relate to this sport. We are a team, and it is our individual strengths that make us great, and our drive and dedication that will make us successful.
Now it's your turn: Do you have a favorite sport? Has it taught you any valuable life lessons? Are you a soccer/football fan like I am? Have you been watching the World Cup? Tell me! Tell me!